5 Myths About Hosting a Weekday Wedding

When many couples picture their wedding day, they don't always consider that their celebration could take place on a day beyond the traditional weekend. But as wedding traditions continue to evolve, more couples are discovering the beauty of choosing a day that feels intentional rather than expected.

A reception space greenhouse inspired by the Victorian era, the Solarium at Haven Ridge celebrates traditions that have endured for generations. One of our favorites is an old English wedding rhyme that wished:

Monday for health, Tuesday for wealth, Wednesday, the best day of all.

As the middle of the week, Wednesday has long carried a sense of harmony and balance. It represents a moment between beginnings and endings, a day that invites us to slow down and be present. While we no longer look to folklore to determine the perfect wedding date, we love the sentiment behind these words and the reminder that a meaningful celebration is not defined by tradition alone, but by intention, connection, and the people gathered to share it.

Our Wednesday weddings are designed for intimate celebrations, most with 50 guests or fewer, where family and friends can truly savor the occasion. Many of our couples invite primarily local guests, making a midweek gathering feel both effortless and intentional. The result is an experience that feels unhurried, deeply personal, and beautifully connected.

Whether you're planning a microwedding or an elegant elopement, a Wednesday celebration honors both tradition and the beauty of keeping your wedding focused on what matters most: the people you're sharing it with.

Still wondering if a Wednesday wedding is the right fit for your celebration? Discover why we've intentionally chosen to host weddings on just two days each week, and why Wednesdays have become one of our favorite ways to celebrate intimate gatherings.

Myth # 1:

“It’s basically the same price as a Saturday wedding.”

Truth:

Our Wednesday packages offer the same beautiful experience at a lower investment than our Saturday celebrations.

Koral Bleu Photography

Myth # 2:

“It’ll throw off the rest of the week.”

Truth:

Turn your wedding into a week worth celebrating. Head off to your honeymoon and beat the weekend traveler crowd.

Maggie Mills Photography

Myth # 3:

“Guests won’t be able to make it.”

Truth:

The nice thing about weddings are they are planned generously in advance, plenty of time to give guests time to plan ahead!

Daniela Guerrero Photography

Myth # 4:

“Nobody gets married on a week day.”

Truth:

we host around 20 Wednesday weddings every year, and each one is just as meaningful and memorable as any Saturday celebration.

KD Hunt Photography Myth # 5:

“It’ll be the same cost as a weekend.”

Truth:

Our Wednesday couples save an average of 20% on venue reservations compared with Saturdays, and many of our vendors even offer special weekday pricing to help you stretch your budget even further.

While a “one-size-fits-all” approach isn’t realistic for every couple, weekday weddings can offer a beautiful opportunity to create a celebration that feels intentional and uniquely yours. Choosing a Wednesday wedding may provide added flexibility with your budget, greater availability with your favorite vendors, and a more relaxed experience for you and your guests.

For couples dreaming of an intimate gathering, a weekday celebration often naturally encourages a more meaningful guest list centered around the people who are truly part of your story. Rather than feeling limited by tradition, many couples discover that stepping outside the expected wedding timeline allows them to focus more fully on what matters most: the connection, the memories, and the experience of sharing this milestone with the people they love.

At the Solarium at Haven Ridge, we believe the most memorable celebrations are the ones that reflect who you are as a couple. Whether you choose a Wednesday or a weekend, the best wedding day is the one that feels intentional, authentic, and beautifully yours.

Start exploring our offerings and discover how we can help you create your dream wedding!